You could always just say that your H has to work regardless. I HATE questions about my H. I am actually dreading a doctor's appointment I have coming up. I know that my dr is going to ask me if I will be trying to have a child soon since I had told her at my last appointment in the fall that we were going to start trying in March (which was the plan). Now that my H doesn't find me sexually attractive, that has all changed. I just dont' want to tell my doctor anything.

Yes...more money and time will be a great thing!

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08