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[MidwesternGirl]

I had a long and frank talk with him and he admitted that she had been calling him and he did talk to her a few times.

I told him that I could not go thru his leaving me and the kids again, that it was way too painful, etc. He said he could not go thru that again either.

I asked him if he had seen her and he said no, and I asked if he was given the opportunity, would he start the affair with her again and he said no, he would not step outside the marriage again.

He said this is a very painful process and said she was also hurt by it. I bit my tongue as long as I could and told him that he makes her out to be the biggest victim of all and I told him the biggest victims were the kids and myself.

He was very understanding, discussed how he was grieving, and he spoke much of the Bible.

In all, it turned out pretty good and he felt good that we talked, again.