True -- I don't want to live this life forever. But I do think I will want an answer at some point.
I guess i have also been working on being more decisive. One of the things that drove her crazy is that for the most part I usually deferred to her, in my head it was because I did not want to be overbearing like my father is. But I can see now that by doing that I was just putting more pressure on her to be teh decision maker.
