Not every person that comes home can go cold turkey w/getting the OP, drug, alcohol out of their systems. It takes time. He's only been home a month and look how long the addiction was.
There is a reason why everyone likes Snodderly to post to them, she is so da mn comforting, true, honest and caring.
I think she is right, I also think that if it bothers you, it is ok to mention it, but do not harp, and not every day or every week, but every now and then. I think a reminder that you ARE paying attention is a good thing. But that is my experience.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK