Don't say I want my wife back either...that's a given.
Yeah what do you want?
And are you capable of doing it? You got to be honest with yourself.
I mean you can go, and act like an ass around him, and wouldn't THAT look good on you? And before you say anything like "It's not fair." Yeah neither is being born in a civil war torn third world country. Life is seldom fair. But Life is what you make it.
You can go, and act in such a way that everyone looks at you, and then looks at your wife and OM, and think...She is F-ing crazy.
Right now though, just based on you and your writing and the fact that you're asking for advice...
I don't think going is a wise choice...not unless you really have a handle on yourself.
If you do go, you are doing this to yourself. She is not parading him around to upset you, you went yourself, you upset yourself, you did this, your choice, your decision, your fault. Understand?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
