I just don't see her ever coming out of this bitter, angry stage regardless of what I do.[/quote] So maybe now is the time to stop worrying about it. Be the kind of person you want to be, whether it pleases her or not.
Originally Posted By: RefuseToLose
I'm almost guaranteed to get a nasty response back from her about how I'm the cause of all our debt and I'm being unfair, but I'm not going to sit back and take the fall for everything and I'm definitely not going to just agree to pay her money w/out collecting what I'm owed as well.
Just smile and wave...and copy everything to your lawyer.
[/quote] This sucks. I hate it, but I have to be the warrior in this thing and hold true and firm w/ what I know is right. She expects to get out of this thing w/out any obligations or financial hits. I'm not trying to ruin her, but I'm also not going to give away money and property either.[/quote] Follow your lawyer's advice. Either she has no idea how the D process works, or she is just trying to badger you into making consessions that you don't have to make.
As for your daughters party--you go and act as if. You are her father and the better man. You go for your kid and buy her whatever the he!! you want as a gift.
