How do other cope with that fine line though between being understanding, trying to make these changes but then being spoken to like chit, being be littled, talked down too etc at times
Respond with "I understand you feel that way". Forgive alien W!(it's a choice). Do not imediately react. Timing is key for a good response- time it when she is more reseptive. (really think about your response to her. Will it draw her closer or puch her farther away). I read Mars/Venus and have used the love letter technique several times with positive results (See examples in my thread).
Good luck! Stay strong! Keep PMA!
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
