I have tried not to put them in the middle. But H did by calling the house and putting ow on the phone to them so they would feel awkward talking to her in front of me. I have just explained to the kids that I do not want that to happen again, so I have told their dad that I do not want that to happen !
If anything I am trying to keep the kids in a comfortable zone. Without ow intrusions in MY household.
I know that I may not have made that clear before. Sorry for that.
BFM, yes I will email, for I always think that you have clear minded views on things. I will do so later tonight ok ?!
ACJ, thanks for all your info ! I'm not in the uk, but thanks still !
My MIL was here today and well, it was lovely. She is so sad about this all. We both do not understand H. But this is going on so long that...well, she too is loosing hope.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
