We have a s10 and she has a d21,d19,d17 and a s12. Im still involved with them. Especially her son. His dad is an oddball. I told her I wont give her money. The "loan" was a one time thing. I wont let her keep falling back on me after divorcing me and running with this guy for a year. She did it again last night...found out the guy was texting his ex gf that he misses her and other stuff after my ex took him back. While with his ex gf he texted my ex (wife at the time) telling her the same. She wasnt happy. Asked me if it was possible she was just starting trouble or if he was playing her. Bit my tongue and said Im not suggesting ANYTHING but it seemed more than a coincidence. She cried and said all her women friends tell her to dump him and I said the same(which I NEVER once said) and she knows the right thing to do(except when it was about saving a marriage) but she doesnt think she can. I said I would pray for her. She suggested praying she does the right thing (have for years but free will sucks). I said I would and I would pray for them to fix things or her eyes to open.
Ill read it Chevelle
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1230087 Me 35 w 42 4 sk 12-21 our s10 m10 t14 '02 ILUBNILWY 12/24/05 pa 02/07 pa separated 1/07-3/07 asked 4 D 3/07