Popping over from Newbies...seperated 2 months

[addie]

Jen,

Your list of positives doubles the list of negatives so that's a huge thing. Another positive is that he was there for 3 hours.

One thing,
When he brings up D again, don't try to change his mind about it. He already knows how you feel and has already heard the argument that it's not best for D6. Either say nothing or validate by saying "I'm sorry you feel this way" and leave it at that. If you push him to see your point of view, he will keep digging in his heels and feel justified to go through with D. If you let go of the rope, he may start to have doubts about pursuing D. This has been a huge thing for me as I would always try to get H to see my point of view. Now I say nothing or validate. Give it a try - talk yourself through it first.

By the way, congratulations on being a godmother. It will be great for you to get away with D.
Sure you can email me the song.