Neecy, I agree with Puppy (as usual). If what he was doing was right, he wouldn't have a problem with them knowing.
I'm going to tell my MIL this weekend. Christmas Eve we were at MIL's house and our DS15 was telling about one of his teachers being on "happy pills". MIL asked what made her need them. DS15 tells of a couple of trauma's in her life but the last straw was when she came home and found her hubby in bed with another woman. This teacher then tried to run him over with her car. MIL says "Good, he deserves it". And get this, WW chimes in "yeah, got that right". How can waywards sit there an act like it's ok for them to do it, but no one else?
Tell the parents. Don't tell him you're going to do it. Don't give him a chance to spin some lame story to them before you tell.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.