fish, you write "who needs the bullsh*t"...Uh, nobody NEEDS it nor does anyone want it! But WTH did you think you were going to get while trying to save your M? Are you friggin serious? No S ever says "Wow, he's trying so hard to save this, I better cut the bullsh*t!" We ALL warned you about the rollercoaster and that is because DBing is just that. Did you think we were just funin' with ya? YOU went home, you made the choice to jump in with both feet, nobody else. You could have said "hey, I think we should take it slow here" but you didn't. Fair enough and I'm sure many of us would have done the same but now it's time to man up and cut the "poor me, I was treated so badly" crap and look at how this fiasco of a reconciliation went off the rollercoaster track. I'm guessing that you two reconciled too fast and too soon, a little work on the issues before getting back together may have done the trick, who knows. But, instead your analysis is "I have come to the realization that my W is no longer for me", a truly amazing conclusion to come to in the midst of all this bedlam, but apparently you're never mixed up, you always have an absolute conclusion reached whether it's the M is busted or it's finished! Amazing. Again, if you can't hack it then fair enough, I jumped ship after 5 years but I can honestly look at myself in the mirror and say "nobody could have done more" in fact, my W said "nobody could have tried harder than you to save this M" Will your W and child be able to say the same about you? Take a break, pull your head out of your ass and make some rational, thought out choices. What more can I say? Ya know, I'm coming to the conclusion that the fish's thread is no longer for me! Wow, it feels so good not to be mixed up about it! The fish may be onto something here.
