I'm impressed I have lasted this long also. But everytime I reached the end of my rope something has happened that makes me think the affair is over and I just need to give her time to get through WD.

But obviously WW finding out he's a serial cheater doesn't matter to her. Him finding out she has an STD doesn't matter to him. His W finding out and forgiving him and trying to make it work doesn't matter.

It's just a cluster F and I've had enough.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.