I'm impressed I have lasted this long also. But everytime I reached the end of my rope something has happened that makes me think the affair is over and I just need to give her time to get through WD.
But obviously WW finding out he's a serial cheater doesn't matter to her. Him finding out she has an STD doesn't matter to him. His W finding out and forgiving him and trying to make it work doesn't matter.
It's just a cluster F and I've had enough.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.