I understand completely wish I had answers for you others and myself. Ultimately even though love is considering others before yourself, a time comes when you have to do what is right for you and the kids. In time forgive her for not having the tools to what is right or even knowing what is right and forgive yourself. We can only do the best we can with what we have to work with.
I hope she figures it out before she blows it all up. Best wishes my friend!
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!