M, I am with you on this, back around Christmas the movie Alvin and the Chipmunks came out, I told my W I was going to carry my boys to see it, guess who beat me to it? That's right, W decided she would carry them before I had the chance. I realized that if I said anything and showed her how it made me feel then she would be prone to do more of the same just to piss me off and show me she is in charge. I would recommend letting it go because if she knows it bothers you that much, she will only do more of the same. As my W has stated, she wants me to hurt as much as she has had to hurt in our M. What better way to hurt now than taking quality with the kids away.
Stay strong, I know how this kind of stuff can get to us, try to let it go, it will only cause for more of the same if she is getting the response from you that she is expecting. Don't let her have all of the glory.
