Hey Vali..It just gets so old. You try to do the right hing , but it doesnt work.
Here is the final email from H:
Liz,
When I first started my new schedule, I told you that my days off were going to be Tue, Wed, Thurs. I asked for D7 from Tue after school until Fri when I would drop her off. Your response was that was too long of a time for you to be away from her. So we compromised and I said that I would pick her up from school on Wed and keep her until Fri morning. Now you are saying that I am changing things all around. You know that what I am saying is true. This is the schedule that we both agreed to. The way you are approaching the subject is extremely confrontational. Now I dont know if, when I pick her up, you will be there for me to drop her off. I have other commitments that I have to meet and if you aren't there, they will be messed up. If you would like to change the schedule, you need to ask me, just like I asked you. I was, am have always been, willing to compromise. I still am. I just am looking for the same respect that I give you. You use language like, "This is not negotiable." Well, the bottom line is that it is. Just like I can't tell you what to do, you can't tell me either. I don't boss you around. I have made every effort to accomodate you in the past. I know you're rolling your eyes right now, but you know that I have.
The bottom line is that you are accusing me of changing something that I didn't change. I want to see my daughter, you know that. We have a really good time together. However, I am not willing to get pushed around by you anymore. I think that we need to sit down with our attorneys and draw up a temporary visitation schedule until this thing is over. I will be contacting my attorney tomorrow to help facilitate that. I hope you don't take that confrontationaly, I just think it protects us both and lays down some firm guidlines.
Am I crazy??? I just dont understand....It seems to all be a dellusion for me...
