Quoting Jamesjohn: Are some of the people "nearest and dearest" to you part of the problem?" Yes
What happens when you share your unhappiness with your loved ones? Do they support you with no question? Do they take your side no matter what?" I end up wishing that i had keep it to my self. Some do not take my side. Some do.
Do they listen to you objectively, without taking sides, and just try to ease your pain? I have one friend that does. Some only take their side, what they think I should do.
Do you ever set them up to take sides? Yes, I try not to do that anymore. I want them to support me by encourageing me to save my marriage.
Do they ever hit you with a "2x4" to try to slap you back into reality when they don't agree with you? If they do, how do you react to them? I have a couple of friends that hit me with a 2x4. I cry. And distance myself from them after that.
What kind of "damage control" are you going to have to do when/if you and your partner get back together?" Are you talking about the friends and relatives? I will just tell them that we have decided to save your marriage and they either have to except it. Or I am moving on without them. I will not let friends and family come between us again. Any advice?
