Cinders,

Just dropping by to give you some support. I think it's fine to set boundaries about what you will have happen in your house where OW is concerned.

As ACJ said - try not to put your kids in the middle of it. Just take it up with their dad if the boundary is breached.

Big hugs to you and sorry I wasn't around this weekend when you were hurting.

You have my email and I do check it at least once a day so email if you need to.

BFM

There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you.
David Burns, Intimate Connections