I understand what you mean Tired. And I know I only have control over myself (and my kids), but if I hadn't snooped I would be just crusing along thinking I was making progress in saving my marriage while my WW f's another married man and plans her life with him in a way to become "one big happy family" and I REFUSE to let my kids be exposed to a serial cheatin, alcoholic, abusive POS.

Maybe I'm handling this wrong, but it's RIGHT for me and my kids. If she can't see how destructive her actions are, then someone has to let her see the reality of it.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.