Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Sara, I really haven't snooped in 2-3 months. And sometimes I wished I'd had because if I'd have known then, what I know now, I could have spared myself 2 months or so of b.s. I was really hoping to find good news when I snooped Sun night, but what I found told me that there is only one thing that may possibly wake her up and that's pushing the envelope. She's just so lost in this and can't see that OM is using her, stringing her along, etc and I believe my only hope is to force the issue. And really, like a couple of others here, I'm ready to move forward with my life, with or without her. There's only so much abuse, lies, and disrespect one person can take. And she's doing her best to manipulate things so everything works out for "her" and the hell with her kids, husband, family and friends. It's time for her to face the consequences of her actions. IMO, only then will she possibly wake up. If she doesn't, I'm sure I don't want to be with the person she's become.

Last night was, in a word, QUIET. She didn't say a single word to me and I didn't say a word to her. It was funny sitting there watching her squirm in the silence. She knows she was busted and now she has to be wondering what I'm going to do. I hope it's quiet the rest of the week so I don't have to reveal my hand before I'm prepared to do so.