Wow, thats an amazing article, that totally summed up (better than I could!) what I have been trying to do, especially this bit I challenged myself to be her truest and most devoted friend. The more I challenged myself and lived up to the challenge, the more inner power I gained. Friendship........empathy, being there without criticism, being non-judgmental.....this is unconditional friendship.
Amazing! Although my "enemy" to us getting back together is depression, not an OW.

Michelle, I am glad you are feeling better. You are in a horrible position, but it is massively positive that he wanted to spend a whole evening with you as soon as she was gone and the wheels had barely left the tarmac! I'd be encouraged by that.

And if only I were as fit and sporty as you!

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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