Hey you! You have that right for boundaries. til after or when you D that is reasonable.

yup hes lying now....see how he gets all grumpy everytime its not according to his plan of having both of you.

i would not allow him to take the kids until you see a fixed seatbelt, end of discussion.

Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest