FInally Snapped.

[Cinderellaman]

Well, after ow spoke to the kids last night on the phone (H put her on) and she had sent D9 an email, I completely decided that this was ENOUGH !

I found a picture on D9's phone of her dad and the ow in a heart !

I have told the children that mommy does not want this contact. Ow is part of H's life, NOT MINE, and for now I do not want her calling this house, or speaking to the kids or emailing them. That is MY boundary. Some of you may not agree, but this is what I want.

H sent an email back, with lies, saying the kids had asked to speak with ow. It was not true, I was there. Also he said that he hoped in the future we could be friends, for our relationship had deteriorated lately.

I sent an email back. I told him I do not wish to discuss the issue, these are my boundaries and that is IT. I also told him that we are not friends and that everything we had between us is gone and dead. I told him that any love I felt for him has died after all this pain, humiliation and sadness. I told him he is now just the father of the children to me.

I know I will have dissapointed many of you in this. But I am choosing for ME, I can no longer go on hurting this much, for it will kill me.
I do not want him in my life, I do not love him anymore. I hate what he has done to this family. I hate his selfish choices !
I no longer want this man.

Thank you for all your love and support.