Are some of the people "nearest and dearest" to you part of the problem?

What happens when you share your unhappiness with your loved ones? Do they support you with no question? Do they take your side no matter what?

Do they listen to you objectively, without taking sides, and just try to ease your pain?

Do you ever set them up to take sides?

Do they ever hit you with a "2x4" to try to slap you back into reality when they don't agree with you? If they do, how do you react to them?

What kind of "damage control" are you going to have to do when/if you and your partner get back together?

JJ

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