CW,

Put the sweatshirt on and think nice thoughts. Things are going well. Put pleasant thoughts in your mind and a smile on your face, and let him know you appreciate his leaving the sweatshirt for you. That is a nice thing, and he didn't have to do it. You are allowing negative thoughts to infiltrate and they will lead you away from your goal. The bad news is you have to compete for your husband. The good news is, you've won this game before. You can do it again.