I am trying to catch up with ya a bit!!! I agree with your thought...you don't live there...don't help pay the pool maintence fee!! My H and I have a pool at his place if he asked me to pay half, I would simply say not until we are on more stable ground. Then I will start to discuss us splitting bills again.

I think sometimes no matter how things are worded we all get upset with our S's. And sometimes, as hard as it is, take it all with a grain of salt. I believe somewhere in Michelle's stuff she talks about believe nothing you hear and only 50% of what you see...or something like that \:\) keep that thought in the back of your head!! Remember the only person you can control in all of this is you! So just try to be the best you that you can be...and God will smile upon you!

I know somedays are harder than others, keep your chin up! You can this, and you are, one minute, hour and day at a time.

Hugs back at ya
christa

H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"