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She said she would sit and dance with me but is afraid that I will get my hopes up if we date. I told her I'd like to see you from tome to time so you can see I'm making changes in my life. That maybe the D is a good thing, the old M is dead work on a new R.

Hi Mike,
You sound down in your post and hope as you are reading this your spirits are up a bit. W is at least willing to see you. that is more than I have. I really feel for you Mike as one can just hear your heart break in between the lines.! Maybe the D is best, as they say, God closes one door and opens windows. We both have to try and keep that in mind. You must keep telling yourself, What a good person you are, your very thoughtful of others, kind an have a big heart and a good sense of humor. Humor never hurts even in times like ours. I have at present lost my humor. GRRRRR.
H is no talk, just nothing and I guess it is time for me to take the band off and look towards starting a new life and R. Cannot live my life alone like this. Even ask H what he thought about me out with other guys and his answer, I don't know and guess I can't judge after all of this. translate, do it! So sad. I guess what hurt the most is not even having a chance to say boo.

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She lives in N Carolina and comes to town every 6 to 8 weeks. She has made me feel attractive and wanted something my W hasn't done for me in years.

Someone has fallen for you Mike!!!! Can't imagine why!
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I have signed up for another coaching session on Monday. Also have a court date for support and property division on Monday. I guess I'll find out how much I'll have to give her a week, she wants $300/week.

This is good. Any idea what you'll try to focus on? Just curious. Have thought of another session but since H wants nothing to do with me or R what is the point? Maybe I should have another session just to get permission to move outside the M. Keep posting here as you need the board community support to help get through the months ahead. I have read a lot of posts where the D went through and then the couple ends up getting back together. This maybe the course your M is going to have to take.
Well guess I'll go check out e-Harmony. Whet H****! Right.?? lol
grid, lost

-Love of dogs, every time I loose a dog to the bridge,part of my heart goes too. Ever time a puppy/dog comes into my life,he gives me a part of his heart. If live my life long enough, in time I'll have the heart of a puppy. -unknown (w/character limit)