I think you should get records (if you haven't already) of every transaction H has made, particularly withdrawals of any kind, any CC charges, etc from the time his A started til now.
Again, DO NOT agree to any changes until you've talked to a lawyer. Please don't drag THIS out. Do it immediately.
I have kept records of that as much as I could & spoke to a divorce attorney (the consultation) and told her that. She seemed to act as if there was nothing to do until H files for divorce. And I continue to keep the records!
I had fun tonight at rehearsal they had us do a costume parade with all our costumes on and then we did a little bit of dancing but not too much!!! H came over during my first costume change which is a totally skintight cocktail dress, very sexy. I said Hi and he said not a word to me (like nice dress) or anything. But one of my theatre friends said he had to notice even if he was pretending not to!!!
The girl that plays my daughter in the play knows H and his girlfriend. She told me tonight H's girlfriend, married with a 13 year old daughter, lets her drink and go out at that age and is a horrible mother. I can't believe H is dating someone like that, I guess she is my total opposite, but wow!!! I am also a little horrified she might ever be my kid's stepmom so I am really praying they break up!!! Karen
Karen
