And I thought my life was screwed up. Mine seems to be just beginning to be arousing from his 4 year coma...I can't even say slumber because it was way beyond that. Mine came dangerously close to losing all ties with our S18. Now he has called S18 and/or spent time with him 4-5 times since Easter.

Do you suppose he married OW and immediately went Whoa!! WTH did I do? What was I thinking, I still love my Jeanette?

Keep us posted. I know just how you feel about being tied to your old life.


Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.