OMG, My H said basically the same thing to me..He kept saying It was their relationship and if they wanted to remain friends I needed to stay out of it. He also said " what kind of relationship do you think I can have if I'm home on all of my days off now?" But he still managed to see her an hour here or there and text her all night while he was at work. It may have ended eventually but I could not take anymore. So I threw him out..the next day he was on the phone crying and begging to come home..Now I only pray he doesn't go back..It's a vicious cycle and its so hard to understand how someone who once claimed to love me forever and would never hurt me can easily do so now and not give it a thought.Stay strong Neecy and do what you think is best. However I would make sure his parents know the truth, might help him wake up from his little fantasy.
Me: 36 H: 34 2 D's: 10+13 Married: 13 yrs(Together 15) Found out about A-Jan 08 Finally ended April 08..I hope?? Struggling to co-exist in peace
