Just looking in from the outside and it apears that your W is looking your way a bit. The best friend comment was good. Right now she possibly does not feel that you will get back together again , that may have very little relationship to what she wants. She may desire to be back together but cant see how or perhaps how it will work. So all you need to do is find the path and lead her to it ... See how easy it is
Not easy and the path has been built over landmines , you are doing well , observe be patient and most importantly keep your own life going.
