I realized today that during this past year, I have shown no anger to H.

1st bomb "I'm not in love with you" - shock, hurt
2nd bomb Confession of OW - shock, hurt
3rd bomb Continuation of OW - yep, shock, hurt

Then I found DB so I followed it. I wonder if that is why my anger bubbles up a lot these days when I think of H. What he is doing to me, to the girls, heck, to himself. I try so hard to let it go, but really, I am not sure how, other than letting time help me. He doesn't see my anger (other than last week when he disappointed D6).

Thank you for adding all this wonderful discussion onto my thread. Its a lot to think about, and it just makes me realize that, sadly, I am not alone in this. But I am grateful for the support on here.