Once my H filed for D my ring came off (and he had stopped wearing his a couple years ago). He kept insisting I didn't "get" or "accept" the fact he was divorcing me and I needed to do that. Not wearing it helped me detach and accept my situation as well as let my H know I was ready to move on.

Not wearing it didn't stop me from DBing. Also, I didn't take NOT wearing a ring as a license to date.


There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.