Neecy,

If it were me, I would respond:

1. I still love you, too. But I think I'm learning that I no longer NEED you, and my LOVE for you is fading every day that you continue to have a relationship with your girlfriend.

2. That's fine, so long as you know that -- over time -- NO decision IS, in fact, a decision. And you also need to know that my patience is not limitless.

3. Thank you for providing that clarity; that helps me with my decision-making. I appreciate your honesty.

And then I would go and expose to his parents, immediately.

Puppy