About a month ago she was depressed. She asked me if I wanted to take a drive. "I miss my family". We did. For 5 hours!!Took everyone out to eat and took her home. After that back to the cold ex.
Last night I was over for some things. We had a small fight. Over money she wanted me to loan her and how I feel thats all I am to her. Got heated but before I left she was fine (not sure how much she drank...) As I was getting ready to leave she started talking about something and wanted to know what I thought. Then wanted me to go online and look something up for her. I sat across the room and she said "I guess that will be your spot when you go online now huh! It used to be on the couch right here (motioned next to her). But not anymore huh? You will always sit there now huh?" All in a really good mood...smiling...even laughed a little.
That "spot" just got a good wi-fi signal so I sat there. And this was after our fight and I told her I would have the last few things out in a few days. I moved to the couch (end and she was close)and she talked my ear off and started asking if I had seen two movies and how she wanted to see another and she watched one with her boyfriend. I kept cool and helped her. She saw a picture on my desktop of a women (kinda like her) and she started acting all excited wanting to know who it was. I just answered "No one" and she gave up after a few minutes. After that she clammed up and acted a little cold.When I left I said goodbye to her daughter and my ex chimed in "Bye..goodnight"
All after our fight and her telling me her BF isnt "THE one"
Im lost...
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1230087 Me 35 w 42 4 sk 12-21 our s10 m10 t14 '02 ILUBNILWY 12/24/05 pa 02/07 pa separated 1/07-3/07 asked 4 D 3/07