Wow GF! I've never posted to you before and I've not read all of your sitch, but I just want to say what an inspiration!!!! 3 years of waiting gives you the Queen of Patience crown.
I like the way you put yorur foot down too. I myself and reconciled with H, I busted my D, but I do remember saying something similar to him, that if he wanted a D in future then I would not stand in his way AT ALL, but he had to make very sure it was what he wanted because I would not fight again. I asked him to come to me with problems MUCH earlier and I would work with him to find a solution, rather than him doing his old trick of assuming he could read my mind and could see into the future.
But enough of me!!! I wanted to chime in and say WOW - well done and just goes to show that sometimes sticking it out can be worth it. I expect many times you've wanted to throw in the towel, but you stayed the distance. Well done!
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.