Well, I am sure it is in her photo album...actually no telling what is in her photo album. I don't really care about that though. I don't know any of her friends (they all probably already know about the relationship anyway) and I know none of his friends know her. Her page is set to private so you have to be her friend to see it.
My thing was that I didn't want his family and friends to see it. Also just the pure disrespect that she knows that we are trying to work things out and she would put that up there. I guess if she had any class though she never would have pursued a married man.
I wouldn't contact her at this point. I sent her a text message in the very beginning that caused all kinds of drama and she showed it to H...wow it was bad. She would probably get off on me calling her now...so I won't give her that pleasure.
Oh, I have no doubt that she is bi. When I first started questioning their R and sent the text, H told me that she thought it was funny that I thought she would even want him because she is a lesbian.