Bear...you're always so sweet. Thanks.

JokerMan,
Thanks for stopping by and for the input.

Trust me, Supermom is a title already earned and I have no problem saying that :-). It's not something I'm trying to live up to. I'm not trying to give the illusion that I am some super tough person, I am vulnerable. And because I have to some make some tough decisions right now, it is important that I find it myself to NOT allow that vulnerablity open me up to being steam rolled. This is not pride, but for the first time in a long long long long time, I'm feeling confident.

Not sure how up you are on my sitch, but I'd like it if you could elaborate on your martyr comment?
I do not want to be defensive but would really like to know what you mean as it pertains to my sitch?
Thanks.
J~


M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out