[quote=momof2girls]Wish I could get inside his head.
You need to stop this thinking, it is what it is and you are trying to control his desicions/movements and making yourself anxious trying to change his mind.
momof2 gave you wonderful advice. The 4nowH and I went to C one last time after he dropped the D word on me, I vented there and he basically said "i'm just here for you, I just want this (M) over with", so basically your H c ould be going just to humor the court and follow orders and say he went.
As you give a quick summary of where you are stay objective. As I explained my new sitch to family /friends I tried to keep it short and said "this is not what I want but..."
Dont' put too much hope into that session, I know you wish something would light up on his brain, but chances are, after all that has happened, it might not happen at C or at all. Trying to keep your feet off the ground, don't mean to be a sti ck in the mud but honey, it's true.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
