Affair is over and WW is responding

[fightingirish]

hope,

Wow that is craziness... I know what you mean about snooping. Your not supposed to do, but I understand it. Some of us wouldn't even know what was going on, or what happend if we didn't, therefore, going through our marriages thinking everything is ok. I happend to find out accidentially, but still, I did snoop for awhile after that, and now only do it if my gut really tells me something is up. Other than that , I leave everything to fate.. I know it may sound crazy, but I only have control over just so much.

I can't continually worry about what he is doing, don't get me wrong, I do wonder sometimes, and second guess things, but I don't let it consume me. You can't. Its not healthy for you or your family.

hang in there..

((((hugs))))