Well, regardless of what OW says or does now - whether the truth or intending to cause drama, H is not living with her or near her and won't be for the foreseeable future. So she's just SOL. It doesn't matter really.
I am glad he will be taking financial responsibility. I think it is important both to get the stress off you, but also because if there is a chance to make the M work he needs to grow up and feel independent and confident.
Have a good week.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2