Hmm...I really don't think that would be wise to do at this moment. Is he going to split what's currently in the account(s) with you now?
You know what, I honestly think it might be a good idea to get legal advice BEFORE you agree to any changes. Don't let him bully you into anything.
Think about you and your children. Find out what you need to do legally to protect yourself. DON'T just take H's word for it.
I don't know why he wants to do this now. It is scaring me! I guess I will try to drag my feet on this, and will talk to my C on Wednesday when I see her too. Lately there isn't much of anything in our joint account after bills are paid. He was taking a lot of money out before he moved out, I think to spend on OW and maybe to set up a little fund for himself since he knew he was moving out. It is frustrating that I keep DBing and DBing and H just seems to want to move further and further away!!! Maybe I need to really go dark with H now(although that is hard to do with the kids of course!)Any ideas on what I should do??? :(Karen
