Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Thanks Neecy. I know a lot of (most?) people here advise against snooping, but I think for me personally, it's a good thing.

I mean, if I hadn't looked last night I would have gone into more debt for a car for DS19 and now that I know what's going on (or still going on) WW would probably have saved up her little nest egg, left when she decided to and then tried to introduce our kids to her "new" boyfriend.

And I'll believe until the day I die that doing what I'm doing to protect my kids from a serial cheatin, alcoholic, abusive POS is the right thing. And if I hadn't snooped, I would be just plugging along thinking I was making progress.

Talk about a waste.