hey there, no you can't control anything he does at this point, he is in denial with her, and soon it will come crashing down.
you are strong, and I know I don't have to tell you that, but one day you will meet someone who will appreciate you and treat you with kindness and respect. I know this will happen for you.
Happy bday to D4!! They grow up so fast, I wish they could say little sometimes..
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.