Michelle, he knew what you meant! He doesn't want to, or can't do it! It isn't really too complicated! You are married to him, and for that to work, there can't be an OW! Even he can figure that out! But he is confused about how to solve the problem, so for now he tries to hang on to both of you. Either figuring he will decide, or that one of you will dump him, and he won't have to. (The second is my guess, I think you've said he has never dumped anyone, so he figures one of you will dimp him, and he'll choose the other one!)
