Hmm...I really don't think that would be wise to do at this moment. Is he going to split what's currently in the account(s) with you now?

You know what, I honestly think it might be a good idea to get legal advice BEFORE you agree to any changes. Don't let him bully you into anything.

Think about you and your children. Find out what you need to do legally to protect yourself. DON'T just take H's word for it.

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell