H never came back 5

[MichelleLT]

I expressed some of that the other week - he asked what I wanted to happen if he didn't file for D, I said OW goes - absolutely NC however innocent, that I didn't want to rush back in to living together, but also that we needed to talk and spend a LOT more time together.

Perhaps it was clearer in my head that what I rambled to him lol.

Journaling: just got off the phone with SIL. She confirmed H bailed on bringing OW to meet the folks. SIL also didn't meet OW when she and her BF saw H. OW was in town, but he did not arrange to have them meet her. In fact, SIL asked about her, and he didn't even smile. Just confirmed she was in town. She said his demeanor was weirdly neutral, chatty, but he didn't go on about OW or her visit. Of course, also no mention of a break up. And OW has not posted some sob story on facebook nor has H changed his status on myspace (hers is set to private again. I only know cuz a friend wanted to know what she looked like so I went to look in her pics and coudln't). So....*shrugs*