I am sorry about what is going on for you today. I am right to understand you have not discussed any of this with your wife yet? I am sorry that what seemed so positive on the weekend got so turned around. Aren't the ups and downs the hardest part?
Before I found evrything that let me know my h had OW I snopped often, I had a feeling, and I needed to look so I could put aside my fears(hoping to find nothing). Now I am afraid to look. I know that I will get the phone bill this week so I won't look on the website I can go to right now. Pathetic. You are strong. Take care and good luck with the rest of your evening.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009