Ok, this might be a little long, but hang in there.

First Sara, yes you are right, the kids need to hear what's going to possibly break up their family. And there is no way I'm going to allow WW to introduce her "new" boyfriend to them without them knowing he's the one that is contributing to the break up of their family.

Now more of the story. I talked to OMW last night and told her the story. She finally got a hold of OM and asked him if he had something to tell her? He said no. This went back and forth a few times. Finally she said, could you tell me how someone in (my hometown) knows I have an appt with an attny this week. OM denies knowing how someone would know that multiple times. So OMW told him to quit f-ing lying to her. OMW then said to him "Could you tell me why someone in (my hometown) was under the impression that you were coming up there this weekend?" He yelled at her he didn't have any idea and he wasn't coming up here.

So OMW started questioning him why OM and WW were still talking. He said, it's just email. OMW said "apparently she thinks it's more because she thought you were coming up there this weekend". He said it's just email talk. OMW said why have you been lying to me since Dec saying you weren't talking to her then? He said it's just email. OMW said even if it's only email you're still having an affair with her. Of course he denied that.

So now is when it get's good. OMW had a missed call on her cell yesterday and it was from OM's area code. OMW called him and asked why she was getting a call from his area? OM about lost it. WHAT NUMBER IS IT? WHO IS IT? OMW said she couldn't see the number but was going to call it and see who it was. She hung up and called the number. It was OM's landlord, but she called him back and asked him why a woman answered the phone. He went into panic mode again about who it was and he had no idea who would be calling her etc.

So....doesn't change my plans at all, but it's interesting that OM probably already has another one on the hook and is stringing WW along, possibly to use her when he can find time.

And WW is going to throw away everything for this POS. It's just stunning.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.