Unfortunately we let it go with the moving back in. We didn't change anything as far as our communication goes and I am CONFIDENT that this is why we ended back up in turmoil.
With that said, we both look back at those few months of separation as being the best thing that could have happened for us. That relatively short amount of time spent apart was a worthwhile investment in US. We needed space to breath, to think and to grow. My wife was adamant that she was not in search of a new love, she was in search of herself.
I'm sorry, but don't these statements contradict each other? I don't doubt that sep CAN be good for some couples as long as you really take the time to work on yourselves and see a solution based therapist to work on your communication or whatever issues you may have. Often times it is larger than an issue of communication.
I have trouble seeing how sep. will benefit anyone in this sitch. Maybe I am wrong. I don't know the whole story, but from what I have read I can relate with mom of 2.
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